refactor: split monolith into 3 microservices (frontend, backend, discord-gateway)

- Extract services into services/{frontend,backend,discord-gateway}
- Create packages/shared/ for shared logger, errors, utils, types
- Setup Modular MVC pattern in backend (controller→service→repository)
- Setup event-driven architecture in discord-gateway with Redis pub/sub
- Move Docker files to infra/docker/ with per-service Dockerfiles
- Update docker-compose.yml to use Traefik-only routing (no port exposes)
- Update GitHub Actions deploy workflow for multi-service matrix build
- Fix all import paths and resolve type errors across all services
- All 3 services pass tsc --noEmit clean

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

services/discord-gateway/src/shared/database/migrations/001_drop_unused_ai_columns.sql

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+-- Migration: 001_drop_unused_ai_columns.sql
+-- Date: 2026-05-30
+-- Description: Drop columns that are written but never read from messages table
+--   - ai_moderation_raw: raw LLM response, never consumed
+--   - ai_policy_version: hardcoded string, never used for decisions
+--   - ai_evidence: JSON evidence array, never read after write
+
+ALTER TABLE messages DROP COLUMN IF EXISTS ai_moderation_raw;
+ALTER TABLE messages DROP COLUMN IF EXISTS ai_policy_version;
+ALTER TABLE messages DROP COLUMN IF EXISTS ai_evidence;