chore(guards): add durable markers so fixes aren't silently dropped

Introduce AGENTS.md (root, primary agent instruction file) documenting six
hard-won fixes with explicit DO NOT / WHY, plus executable enforcement so a
future AI cannot delete or reintroduce them:

1. package-lock.json must be generated with npm 10 (Docker's npm 10.9.8).
   npm 11 drops the top-level @emnapi/core + @emnapi/runtime entries npm 10
   needs, breaking the tag-triggered Docker build at `npm ci` (happened on
   v1.0.14). Add scripts/verify-lockfile-npm10.mjs + .npmrc + a Dockerfile
   fail-fast check + a CI step + tests/unit/lockfile-npm10-guard.test.js.
   Also re-fix the lockfile itself (regenerated with npm 10.9.8).
2. Tests must never write to the real ~/.9router DB (isolateDataDir).
3. Hidden providers must not leak into Usage (usageProviders !p.hidden).
4. codebuddy-intl connection test + OAuth identity.
5. Fork-only features that must survive upstream syncs.
6. Upstream sync procedure.

Each marker cross-references AGENTS.md and the covering test. CLAUDE.md now
points to AGENTS.md at the top. Verified: build ok, guard script passes,
full suite leaves the real DB count unchanged (38), 0 new regressions.

package.json

@@ -14,7 +14,9 @@
     "build:bun": "bun --bun next build --webpack",
     "start:bun": "bun ./.next/standalone/custom-server.js",
     "cli:pack": "npm --prefix cli run pack:cli",
-    "cli:publish": "npm --prefix cli run publish:cli"
+    "cli:publish": "npm --prefix cli run publish:cli",
+    "verify:lockfile": "node scripts/verify-lockfile-npm10.mjs",
+    "lockfile:regen": "npx -y npm@10.9.8 install --package-lock-only"
   },
   "dependencies": {
     "@dnd-kit/core": "^6.3.1",